REALITY OF LIFE



 REALITY OF LIFE THAT EVERYONE SHOULD LEARN ABOUT.

 

 Hello and hi dear people!

How are you guys doing? Are you guys okay? Hope you all will be okay. For me,  I am just doing great I think. Its okay if you’re not feeling great, as long as you aware of it and take some time to heal from it. Hopefully, things will be better for you soon enough.


So, the reality of life. What is your opinion on this one topic? It is hard isn’t it. I mean life is hard and unpredictable. According to google dictionary, life means the existence of an individual human being or animal. Yeah, existing is considered life. Have you ever wondering, what truly life means?  Like what am I supposed to do in this life? What is my life is all about? Well, that is me. I always think of that, and I am still searching for it. What is the meaning of life and the most important thing that always lingers in my head is what is the reality of life? The truth of life that everyone needs to learn and know about it. For some people, life is all about enjoying it because life is short (for them). Several think that life is all about hard work and your hard work will pay off at the end of it. It depends on people also, how you want to create your life.

So, the reality of life.

1.     Life is a journey, you cannot go back into the past and you cannot go into the future. – this means that whatever you want to do, you just have to focus to your presents and not the past, move on from the past, you have to learn and heal from the past. Yes, I know it is hard for someone to forget about the past especially the memories which the scars still remain in our heart. But after all, you have to learn from it slowly but surely. Just take the lessons and move on.

2.      Being productive is not mean that you are always busy- this point is very important as people always thought that being busy is important as it shows that you are very productive. Actually it is not. Being productive does not mean you are busy all the time. At this point, time management is very important. If you want to change your life to be better, and want to be  a better person, you should be aware that you have to change that perspective. Look after yourself too and manage your time wisely. As being success is not meant by how much work do you have but it determine by how you work on your plan effectively.

3.     You have the time, and you are not too busy- it is means by if you think the person is always important to you, you will always try to make time for them. If you truly care, and if you truly loves him or her you are much will spend your time with them and you are not too busy for them. This is a very true and very much indeed a pretty good one. Harsh reality though that everyone has to admit and learn.

4.     Life is short so enjoy it- this point relates that death can be anytime soon or later, so everyday that you live in is such a precious day for you. So, live through it and be happy.

5.     Life can get through failure sometimes- failure is not an option, there must be failures before you can be better, you choose what you wanna be after you experience the failure. Accept the failure and get up from it. Learn from the failure.

6.     Do things that you love the most- everyone must have their favourite things to do, if you do what you love and love what you do, you will feel better. You’ll feel the happiness inside you and much better you enjoy the life. Seriously I said, if you do things that you like, you will feel a lot better.

7.     Do not rely on someone or depend on someone- very much important point. A very hard and the reality of life. This life is all yours, this life is all by yourself. You have to get through things all by yourself and you only have yourself. Yes, there are friends and other people who can help you throughout the journey but it still needs you to lead your own life. I agree, life is all related to each other, but we still need ourselves to make all the decisions in life. This reality is very hard to accept especially to those who experience emotionally dependent. People who experienced emotionally dependent need someone to makes them happy, and accurately, they depend on people to express their emotions. If the person they love is happy, then they are happy, if the person is sad, they will feel sad also. If this occur, the person has to build up their self-love in themselves. After all, do not rely on someone to make the better version of yourself. You are the one who create your own life and not others.

8.     Last but not least, the very crucial one of reality of life is you have to believe that life is not perfect. Life is not perfect people. You just have to be grateful with what you have. That is why it is important for us to write a list of gratitude so that we can appreciate with what we have now. So, don’t you worry people. what you have now is always the best for you. When you feel grateful, you’ll experience the perfect life. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND BE GRATEFUL WITH IT.

Woaahh, that is long, hurmm, I think that is all from me. After all, life is all about experiences and knowledge. Experiences teach you to be a more empathetic person while knowledge teach you how to become more rational. Remember that, life is hard, but surely, we can get through it. Be strong for whatever you face in life.

LIFE

L FOR live

I FOR independent

F FOR forgiving

E FOR experiences




that is all from me have a nice day everyone. thanks for reading. 

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