Friends

 

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Today’s post is I would like to talk about friends. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Yes, I agree with that and most people agreed too. A friend is the one who always be with us and help us when we need it. As defined in the dictionary, a friend is a person who has a strong liking for and trust in a person. Lots of us have friends but only a few of us can get and be real and true friends. Most people wish to have a true friend. This is because true friends are really hard to find as not everyone can always stay by our side during our ups and downs. People that are not sincere to befriend us will not willing to be with us during our hard times and only comes to us if they really need us.

In my opinion, a real friend that is willing to help us and befriend us is very hard to find especially during these days. So, to know whether your friend is true or not, there are few factors that can be determined like that. First and foremost, your friend is always checking on you whether you are okay or not. Friends like this are hard to find. This kind of people will always worry for you and never missed the chance to check on us. If we are really in not good condition, their worriedness will be double and will try anything and everything to have us back in good condition. For instance, person A messages her friend daily to ask whether she is having a good day and if not person A will be ready to lend her ears to her. This shows that person A is being so kind towards her friend and her actions looks very sincere. Basically, I think her friend will be okay because it shows that someone loves them with all their hearts and someone really care about them. So yeah, that is what I see in a true friend.

Moreover, a true friend will always have your back no matter what. Imagine if someone is struggling with their life and feels like want to give up. A true friend comes and gives some hope and strengths. It is a very kind act to do, cause somehow not everyone can do something like that, maybe some just have sympathy and not able to help and understand the person. In my opinion, if you find and have someone like this, please appreciate him or her. She/ he is so precious and never forget her indeed. Do not ever make your friend feel bad or lonely. Just remember that not everyone will treat us the same way. Actually, in this world, we can know and we can differentiate how people will treat us and do people appreciate us or not. It just maybe not everyone can manage to have a true friend but if you have one treat them kindly.

The most important thing that I want to say is you have the right to choose who is your friends are. You are allowed to remove some of the friends that you think will create a toxic environment. Please get away from toxic people, It will harm you slowly. So be aware of it. For most of my life, I spend observing people, and honestly said, I am the one who will treat all people and can be friends with other people. But, I have some special friends in my life too. Most precious ones. I love them so much and always try to do everything for them. I think I have written too much, yeah because when we say something about friends, it is very related to us and most people will have it. After all, I would say, treat all your friends with kindness. Goodbye and have a nice day!






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